30 Days to a Better Step Family – Day 23

Long before I was a stepmother, I was the neighborhood mom.  There have always been children in and around my home.  Sometimes it got a little crazy. One day, the boys were outside jumping out of the two story oak tree in our front yard. Going out, I cautioned them...

30 Days to a Better Stepfamily –Day 19

Christmas cookies are baked, Christmas music is playing, the fireplace is crackling warm and the tree, with all of its lights, is standing tall and elegant in the family room waiting the arrival of the stepchildren so that we can decorate the tree.  Excitement fills...

30 Days to a Better Stepfamily – Day 12

We went to see the production of the play, Next to Normal, last weekend.  The whole time I was watching the production, I was thinking about one of our children.  We have been through so much trying to “fix” this one. This one, this beautiful child now adult, is a...

30 Days to a Better Stepfamily – Day 11

My angry words fly like red-hot embers propelled from a slingshot, creating collateral damage for anyone in their path on their way  toward my husband.  I want him to take my side, to set the record straight and do it where I can have the satisfaction of hearing it...

30 Days to a Better Stepfamily – Day 7

One of the most difficult things to do is live in a stepfamily.    Scars on our soul and voices of the past can torment our sleeping and waking hours.  All who come into a stepfamily bring with them wounds, and images from the past.   Some images are of a family that...

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