30 Days to a Better Stepfamily –Day 9

They are sisters by marriage and not by blood, yet their mannerisms are so similar.  Last summer we had trouble telling them apart in photographs and needed to look at their swimsuits to tell who was who. I study them closely trying to really know who they were...

30 Days to a Better Stepfamily – Day 8

It is 2:45 in the afternoon and I have been working for two days trying to prepare for out of town guests who will be arriving in about three hours.  There is a lot I would still like to do, and at this very moment I am trying to cook a really great meal when I...

30 Days to a Better Stepfamily – Day 7

One of the most difficult things to do is live in a stepfamily.    Scars on our soul and voices of the past can torment our sleeping and waking hours.  All who come into a stepfamily bring with them wounds, and images from the past.   Some images are of a family that...

30 Days to a Better Stepfamily – Day 6

She is an angry teenager – Half woman, half child and her maturity is not ready to face such difficult times.  She is trying to work through a life she never wanted.  I am in love with Doc and married him, and though our lives are better, she feels like she is in...

30 Days to A Better Stepfamily – Day 5

I do not have a PhD in physiology, though there have been so many times that I wished I could download such a degree for immediate use.  But even a PhD in physiology does not have all of the answers we need to deal with a Stepfamily. Like it or not, an Ex is a part of...

30 Days to a Better Stepfamily – Day 4

Turf wars were raging between my stepdaughter and me. She was determined to be the woman of the house and dictate what would, and would not happen, and I was sure that this would not be the order of our lives.  Knowing that this eight year old ruling the roost would...

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